Do Not Let Small Hickups Ruin Your Wedding Day
If you are sure you are going to have a perfect wedding, and then the flowers show up slightly different than what you ordered, this could ruin your day if you let it. However, if you remember that they are only flowers, and that important thing is that you celebrate your spouse to be with your friends and family, you may look back and laugh about the flowers in the years to come.
You may get a mark on your dress or trouwjurk as we say, the cake may fall, or perhaps your flower girl decides to eat the flowers on the way down the aisle. Maybe it rains or perhaps your mother has to run home to change her dress, delaying things a bit. These are all things that no one wants to happen, but because they do does not mean you are not going to have a perfect wedding. It means you are having a real wedding. The perfect wedding does not exist. Something always happens. Handle it with grace and love, just as you hope to handle the rest of your lives together.
Your perfect wedding is one that happens without anyone getting hurt. That, and the exchange of the vows, is all that matters. If you worry that you may be so nervous that small things that can happen will get you too worked up, choose your bridesmaids very carefully. A good attendant will find, fix, or deal with problems without you even knowing they came up or that they were dealt with quickly. Many brides who have chosen wisely don’t know about problems until long after the wedding when someone tells them what happened. Concentrate on the perfect wedding for you, do your planning, and let everyone else take care of the details while you look beautiful and share this day with your love.
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