The Importance of Gifts in Relationships
From cards and flowers, candy and jewelry, gifts play a major role in romantic love in modern day America. It’s often seen as expected for new couples to woo each other with gifts of every type, although the frenzied rate of exchange often slows down as the couple spends more time together, especially through a long marriage. Some couples eschew the tradition and forgo all the gifts, but for others, it’s practically required. Why is this? Most of the explanation goes back to love languages. People show and receive love in different ways, with giving and receiving of gifts being just one of those ways. In a couple where neither partner has a particular affinity for gifts, this expression naturally falls by the wayside in favor of quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, or acts of service (the other commonly referred to love languages). But for people who do find Gifts to be important, the tradition never seems to die.
In relationships, perhaps the most special Gifts are those that are given for no reason at all. While most couples will exchange gifts for common celebrations like Christmas and birthdays, and some for Valentine’s Day, giving or receiving a random, special, and personal gift seems to have special meaning for many. Any why not? The act signifies that the giver is thinking of the receiver and wanting the best for him or her, without being prompted by a requirement or a “have to” reason. This act says, “I love you and I want the best for you and I want to take care of you and make you happy.”
While the giving and receiving of Gifts is of great importance in romantic relationships, it’s also an important expression of affection between friends, family members, and parents and children. Children especially need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, and a fun gift every once in a while can portray this message. Unfortunately, some parents see this as the only required expression of love for their children, and they substitute material things for emotional connection and quality time. While this manner of gift givng will never be productive, families who engage in healthy gift-giving will surely reap the benefits down the road in their relationships.
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